In his sales letter, Pavlina attempts to distinguish Pagan’s pick-up advice from that of “pick-up artists,” but the truth is that Pagan put himself on the pick-up artist guru map with his interview series “Interviews with Dating Gurus” that interviewed all the other pick-up artists which Pagan speaks very highly of, including our confused friend “Tyler Durden.” (UPDATE 9/21/2009: The Interviews with Dating Gurus series is included as an opt-out addition at .95 per month, with a free first month when purchasing Man Transformation.) Pavlina writes…
Man Transformation has a very empowering attitude throughout.
So instead of focusing on how to woo her, focus on sparking her attraction.
Courting is what you DO, what you OFFER, and what you GIVE (like gifts, dinners, flowers, compliments).
He felt rejected for a long time as he tried to approach and attract women through the usual pickup styles.That is when he tried thinking if there was a better way of approaching, attracting and dating women.Personal development superstar blogger Steve Pavlina just tweeted that he is now promoting Eben Pagan’s DVD set, “Man Transformation.” (Link goes to Pavlina’s sales page for a 20-DVD course costing 6.50.) Pavlina seems to have become interested in dating advice right around the time he announced that he and his wife decided to have an open marriage and explore polyamory.It’s hard not to read “empowering” as clearly “power-over” in this context.Pick-up artist Eben Pagan made his internet millions explicitly teaching men that , and teaches tactics to secretly control women through sophisticated psychological manipulation.